Showing posts with label music. Show all posts
Showing posts with label music. Show all posts

Monday, December 27, 2010

Punta Cana Revisited


Our trip in the week before Christmas (with the kids at 2.5years and 10months of age and my parents)

Starting from the airplane ride, the trip was not nearly as peaceful as when we made it only with Martin at 10 months of age. Valentin is at exactly the same age now, but unlike his brother, this boy MOVES. He slept very little and was quite fidgety for the rest of the trip. Even flying with my parents and taking turns to hold him did not give us much break.
The hotel, Barcelo Dominican Beach, was quite older than the one we stayed last time, but the property grounds were big and well-kept. The rooms were extremely humid and decorated in cheesy floral hotel colors - thank goodness we did not have to spend long hours in them! Only the first day and a half were rainy and we had gorgeous weather for the rest of our stay. We stayed on the beach as much as we could. It felt unreal to be in a bathing suit after leaving Charlotte with layers of sweaters, coats, hats and gloves.


Mini Disco

Before the main show every evening, there was a show for kids consisting of playing kids music, one lady showing the moves and all kids that dared go on stage following her. The first night I asked Martin if he wanted to dance on stage, he said 'Yes' and I took him there leaving him with the rest of the kids. He started following the moves - step forward - kick, step backward - turn around, hands up... then he stopped, looked around and noticed all the audience staring at the stage and suddenly his smile turned downwards, he saw me and ran to me crying. We watched the show till the end and joined the last song (about the train) together...
The next evening Martin went on stage by himself and did not come back till the whole show was over. He was trying to follow all the moves and was having a great time! Every morning he would wake up singing some of the songs from the evening ("Hands up! Baby, Hands up! Give me your hart, give me, give me, your heart - give me give me! All your love!", "Veo veo! Que ves? Una cosita. Y que cosita es?... ", etc. etc.).


Martin also made two girlfriends from the very first day - Luciana (3) from Peru and Maria(2) from Chicago. He would 'date' one of them during breakfast and in the pool and the other at the Christmas tree in the lobby (after dinner) and all throughout the discoteque. They would go on stage together and although Maria would be in her own parallel world dancing to what seemed a totally different music, both of them would often check on what the other is doing... They were very cute together!
At the end of each show every kid will get a small bag of hard candy. Grandpa taught him to put it in his pocket and wait for the next morning to eat it! He indulged into every single candy the next day, kind of like Israel and I savor our morning coffee with occasional chocolate bar.
One day, there was a kids party at the pool. They played the mini disco hits and played some games. Martin won the game where kids in a circle pass along a ball after receiving it from their neighbour and turning around. When the music stops the kid having the ball has to leave the circle. Fast turning around and passing the ball was key to winning, but Martin was taking his time and enjoying it! Still, he won!
Another night, they had a similar game on stage in the evening. They interviewed each kid leaving the circle: "Como te llamas? De donde vienes?". When Martin's turn came, he said his name, but to 'De Donde vienes?' he answered "De donde?" one evening and "de Venezuela" the next. And then they made him say "Chipi-chupi!" before they gave him the bag with candy. He was so cute - the youngest one on stage to have to do that...

The Baby

Valentin will probably become a mountain climber one day. He loved to climb the beach lounge chairs with the head position up. Even getting a blister on his toe did not stop him from constantly trying to climb over. He always tries to put his feet on an elevated surface - be it the table, the arm rests of chair, or anything higher than the ground. Unlike Martin at this age, he did not mind at all the sand getting all over his face and mounth. I think he liked the taste of it - he continued sucking his thumb no matter how much sand there was on it and did not flinch a bit. He also enjoyed the Chrismas tree in the lobby, but for slightly different reasons - there were so many ornaments he could touch, taste, throw and too little time to do it. He was fast and my dad could hardly keep up with him.


Food & Drink
The main buffet was our favorite. The freshly squeezed juices of banana, melon, watermelon, pineapple, papaya were the best part! We could find queso fresco, passion fruit, plantains, fish and mariscos. But even chicken had a totally different flavor than the hormone-grown chickens we eat in US. The a-la-carte restaurants were not great, but were a break from buffet food which inevitably comes in great quantities...
Martin was very cute noticing every person's use of Spanish: "Lelichkata (la senora)/chichkoto (el senor) habla Espanol!"
Alcohol drinks were also included. And here is where all these All Inclusive pacakges make money - from people like us: my mom never drinks, my dad ventured to try pinacolada, Mama Juana (the Dominican rum) and Irish coffee, but he would do one drink per day. I cannot drink because I am still nursing and Israel does not drink much if he does not have company...

Grandparents


My Dad was constantly busy with either Martin or Valentin. He would go patiently through offering them different kinds of food until he finds what they like and would still more patiently feed them (Martin gets distracted a lot and it takes an hour to feed him the bare minimum). He would take Martin for walks on the ocean, take him easy in the water (not to shock him with the cold water), swing with him on a swing, play games, run with him, and he would always try to look busy with the kids at the beginning of the main show when the dancers picked up people from the audience to dance on stage. Still, this did not save him and he got picked up twice. My mom looked like she was taking a much deserved break from the kids :).

Us

I thought about it, thought about it, thought about it, and finally succumbed to the constant offers of the locals to braid my hair. I don't like huge changes (especially with my hair) and only did it half-way. Next time, however, I will do full braids and not worry about washing and drying my hair at all. How nice would that be!!!

Isra and I got picked up to go on stage for one of their shows. However, Martin thought we are there to dance without him and ran on stage crying for me. So, I stepped down and avoided being made fun of (thanks Martin!).

Traveling with the grandparents did not give us too much break from the kids (at least not what we hoped for). We stayed late one night (even went to the club), but since the kids wake up at 6:30am every morning, we had a miserable day and agreed it was just not worth it. Vale was waking up once or twice at night (and he hasn't missed a night for 6 months now), so I still could not get the rest I needed. And unlike the first time to Punta Cana when I could read my book by the pool while Martin was sleeping next to us, this time we had at least one kid awake at all times and my book stayed unread (except for 2 chapters).

More photos here

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

18 months


At 18th months you are a 54'' tall (over 95th perc), weigh 29.6 pounds (80th perc.) and you have a 20.25 inches (over 100 percentile) of a head full of brain!!!
You say more than 80 words - and that is not counting the numbers from 1 to 10 that you know in English, Spanish and Bulgarian. You counted for Dr Smith from 1 to 10 in English missing only number 8 (this is new for you). You still need help for counting in Spanish and Bulgarian, but you say sooo many words it is amazing:
- Kak se kazva mama? De-ya-na (you pronounce it better than anyone I have heard pronounce my name here in the US). You also know the names of: Ese, Moni, Simon, Isra, Ivan, Penka, Mia (Mariela). You say your name now with the accent correctly on the last sylable Ma-tin. And you prefer calling Nadia - Anya (good thing she does not mind). Nadia also taught you to respond with 'I wow you' whenever she told you 'I love you!'
- borovinki, sokche, mako (mliako), eche (leche), supa, apche (hliabche), mi-ina (mandarina), banana, apple, med (almost always you say 'dado med' indicating this is your diado's med), aqua, voda, kafe, Cheerios, cookie, wi-wa (for tikva), guba
- trash, garbage, schoolbus, kola, kamion, buy, ciao, hi, computer, flush, Santa
- masa, stol, toplo, kuche, decata, momiche, obuvki, shoes, zapatos, ukavici (rukavici), shapka, baloni, topka, polota (pelota), vunka, aide, vamos, gore, dolu, kosa, ami sega/i sega?, niama, dealo (odealo), gledalo (ogledalo), baseina (also: piscina), mecho, bebe, noni, waaa (to indicate someone is crying), piano
- mii, pii, yaj, sedni, vzemi, dai, doide, OK
- tio, tia, abu, baba, dado (diado), tati (also: papa, papi), mama (mami), ucho (vuicho)
- mushata or bushata to mean 'musika-ta'. And we hear this a lot - whenever you want us to play music on the stereo downstairs, the small stereo upstairs or whenever you want to hear all ringtones on my cellphone.
- You also LOVE to repeat the curse words your father occasionally uses (coño, joda). One morning you started saying 'coño' out of nowhere and looked at your father and laughed while saying it over and over. You so knew this was a bad word!!!

The biggest surprise a month ago was me realizing that whenever I read to you and stop in a middle of a sentence - you correctly say the following word. And this is reading from your English books (My Shoes Take me Anywhere, Aladdin, Pooh & Eeyore, etc), Bulgarian books (Diado Vadi Riapa) or Spanish books (Donde Esta el Umbliguito)...

Me: Eeyore is feeling very sad...
You: today
Me: He's lost his...
You: Tail
Me: Eeyore looks up and sees...
You: Pooh
Me: Hello! says...
You: Pooh
Me: Eeyore doesn't...
You: answer.

And we finished the whole book in the same manner with you saying for the first time words like: friends, garden, now, contest, bounce, story, book, hide and seek, happy, etc. and with a very clear diction and correct pronunciation... You absolutely floored me!!!

When we went to church on Christmas eve, you did not stop talking and we could hardly contain our laughter. Every time the priest stopped singing you clapped hands and loudly said 'Bravooo!'. You found someone to look at you and then you start pointing at us and telling that person that this is 'mama' and that is 'tati'. When people get up as part of the mass, you tapped the bench next to me and told the guy that just got up 'Sedni! Sedni!' ('Sit Down! Sit Down!') . And when I gave you cheerios and cookies so that your mouth is full and you stop talking, you said loudly 'Cheerios! mmmmmm' or 'mmmm. Cookie! Am-Am'...

Friday, October 23, 2009

Polyglot (15 months)

So far, you have been great in mastering all three languages. Here is what you say and do so far:

We: Hablas Espanol?
You: Si

We: Govorish li Bulgarski?/ Govorite po Russkii?
You: Da

We: Do you speak English?
You: Yes

We: Como estas?
You: Mien (for Bien)

We: Kak se kazvash?
You: Ma-ti.

Baba: Ti kakuv si?
You: Mij (saying muj = man)

You repeat iazh when we tell you to eat and occasionally you would ask by yourself by saying 'am-am'. You say by yourself mii-mii-mii when you wash your hands or see someone washing the dishes. You say djish for toplo. You say Gore when you want to go upstairs in your room (mostly when you are ready to go to bed - this started since our trip to the Outer Banks 13 mo old), or you say noni. You say booo to anything that makes loud noise - the blender, the dishwasher, the washer and dryer, the trucks, the hair-drier... You are fascinated with bikes and you always say bici when you see one. Same with babies - you say bebe as soon as you see one even if it is a kid 2 years older than you (only if it is a girl of course)...
You say correctly Ciao (pronounced Shaaao) and Buy and you say Aye when you want to say Hi. And every time you flush the toilet or you hear someone flush, you go in look at the water and say 'Bye'.

You identify on pictures and in person: mama, tati, baba, diado (you say gago), vuicho (you still cannot say it, but you know who we are talking about), tio Eze, tia Moni, Simon.

When your father was in Vienna and Prague for a week, you would ask for him every day: Tati? niama. Tati? Niama.
During that week I had to go work from the office and you would miss us so much that you would grab the photo that we have on the refrigerator (the one of us in SF where we've just biked across the bridge), walk with it around the house and say Mama - Tati - Mama - Tati...

You made the association that when your father is not in the house, then your baba is. So now every time your baba leaves in the evening you start: Baba? Niama. Tati!!! (knowing that he will come in a little bit)... And when your dad leaves in the morning your start: Tati? Niama. Baba!!!

My recent discovery is that you count in Spanish. One day I started counting to you:
Me: Uno
You: Dos
Me: Tres, Quatro
You: Cinco
Me: Seis, Siete
You: Ocho
Me: Nueve
You: Diez

Mommy's smart boy!!! Counting at the age of 15 months! In Spanish!

Lately, you started saying aqua and bako (meaning mliako). Cannot help but compare with Simon who also talks a lot and started talking very early - he started with the basic words, however, ensuring his survival - aqua, tete, teta, jugo, carne, etc... Whereas with you, it still costs me to figure out what exactly you want.

You know most of the songs your baba sings to you and you help her with the lyrics with incredible timing:

Baba: .... sedem palavi kozleta i edna koza/tia be maichica grijliva stavashe v zori/ sveji klonki i kopriva da gi nagosti
You: Mamo
Baba: Mamo, mila mamo, etc... Vulcho shtom pochuka nie tuka shte sme skriti
You: Aww
Baba: Aww ot glad umiram... etc. S hitrost i vzlom shte vliaza -
You: Azz

Also, there is this opera in Bulgarian going 'Tiho-tiho, subudihme deteto s nashata kavga. Ami sega? Ami Sega? Shte triabva da mu peem i da go luleem... "
And you continue: Nani
And your baba: Nani-Nani, milo detence.... etc.

You've mastered almost all animal sounds: Kucheto? af-af. Koteto? niaw (for miew). Kravata? muu. Kokoshkata? ko-ko-ko. Gargata? ga-ga-ga. Koncheto? ta-ta. Magarenceto? iaa-iaa. Vulkut? awww. Tigura? khkhkh. Pilenceto? pi-pi-pi. Pateto? pa-pa-pa... Agunceto? beeee. Buhala? whoo-whoo... Actually, you are a little bit afraid of the owl. One evening we were playing on my bed and you heard it outside and you started hugging me. When you could no longer hear it, you kept repeating whoo-whoo niama. whoo-whoo niama... until you fell asleap in my arms...

You know and correctly point to the following body parts (either on yourself or on me or on a drawing in a book): boca, ojos, nariz, pelo, cachetes, umbliguito.

Other things you say: ah-ah (meaning 'dirty' or poo-poo), pish. When you see flowers (both real or on a picture) you inhale and exhale with aaahhh... You also do this whenever you see us drinking our morning coffee - you grab hold of the empty cup, smell it and say aaahhhh... If you drop something you say o-oh...

You love your books and often you would grab one and bring to me to read it outloud. You also love the laptop of your dad. Every time someone is using it, you would ask to be picked up and then press the Windows button (next to the left Alt key) and say Goool when the shortcut menu pops-up and you see the icon displaying a soccerbal and a football and basketball behind it. And you love if we play you music videos on YouTube. You love music! You start moving your hands as if you are the conductor. And we cannot but hope you will be the next Venezuelan (-Bulgarian) Dudamel (you already have the hair for it :)).